Caitlin Hargraves
From Peter: Before you ask; no. As close as our last names are, there's no relation. When we met Caitlin at Texas Shakespeare Festival nearly five years ago, however, she was so wonderful in every way; she simply had to have been a long lost sister.
Since that time, Caitlin completed her Master's in the UK at the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art and acted all over the world. Recently, she's completed her first year as a professor of theatre studies at Emory University in Atlanta where Coronavirus canceled her directorial debut. Yet, we have much to learn from this actor, writer, teacher, and yogi extraordinaire. Reconnect, reassess, and lead with gratitude. It's always nice to have the guidance of family. Enjoy our long lost sister!
What were you looking forward to that you lost because of COVID-19?
I was looking forward to my writing and directorial debut of a site-specific show I was developing for Theater Emory (the producing extension of Emory University’s Theater Studies program, where I’m a first year professor). It was a piece I had written specifically for the student cast of 7 women, from concept and beginning of design interpretations it was about a year in the making. The opening night would have been April 2nd. I was also looking forward to seeing the scene work my acting students were beginning to develop! I had a wonderful group of students this semester and their ensemble energy was so lovely, I’m a big fan of all my students- but this group was extra special.
What is something (a thought, a family member, a hope, a piece of art, a meme, a song, ANYTHING) that is getting you through?
I’m lucky to have a lot of somethings… going on long walks with my husband and dog (with the occasional evening cocktail) daily has really been a treat. Atlanta in spring time is beyond amazing so working in my yard and spending time getting my hands dirty has given me a lot of peace (and projects). Reconnecting with fellow theater artists has been immensely helpful on the days where i’m in a funk... fresh out of college I was part of an artist collective that used to produce work monthly and share it online and we have recently reconnected (8 of us spanning from Hawaii to Austria) and are creating work on a weekly basis on www.morningtomorning.net.
What do you think has an opportunity to change as a result of this time to reset?
The Planet! I feel so much hope from learning about the environmental benefits of people staying in one place. I also hope people realize how much they have turned to the arts in these crazy times, and continue to show the support by showing up to theaters, concerts, and galleries when we’re able to again. Last but not least, I’m hopeful that we see/feel the benefits of slowing down… I am guilty of saying yes to most opportunities that come my way and it often results in an absolutely maddening schedule. This time has really allowed me to reassess my process and priorities.
Anything else you'd like our readers to know during this time?
Just that now is an opportunity to show kindness, with each other and ourselves. As an actor there is this constant hustle voice in the back of my head and I have fully told it to shut up- that now is not a time to be perfecting my craft, or rock hard abs, or write that play- but instead I can turn up the volume on my voices of kindness, gratitude, and patience… which are so valuable and not often applauded in this industry.
Quarantine Quickly:
Favorite snack: Apples and Peanut butter!
Home workout routine (you know, if you're into that): I used to be a yoga teacher, so it’s been fun reconnecting with friends and family teaching classes through zoom!
What are you watching: well, I got through tiger king at an alarming rate. So I’ve turned the corner and am watching The Watchmen on HBO.
What you are reading: The Overstory by Richard Powers
Yes or no… Out of pajamas before noon?: Out of pajamas and into yoga/gardening clothes!